How (not) to destroy your life!

Stop constantly paying attention on how are you feeling. How are you feeling is only temporarily. Feelings are not under your control. Only your decisions are and how you act on them. Your action is under your control and your actions usually leads to an feelings of pleasure or shame, good or bad.

Stop worrying. Constantly caring about something often worsens things. The more you think about the bad things, it seems more likely that it will happen. Let them be.

Loosen your inner comments. If you want to be happy, stop telling yourself that you are this or that. People constantly tell themselves how they feel, what others feel about them and think etc. We are imperfect beings and we have no capacity to know what is hiding in the minds of other people.

Try not to notice your inner criticism. It is pointless to condemn yourself or some one else. Judging others is also silly and much times stupid. After all, consider who really gives a damn to your opinion.

Stop feeling guilty. Guilt does not change anything. Since it is so. Do not mind. Take responsibility! Go & fix what you broke!

Stop worrying about what the rest of the world says about you. People or events are just that, people or events. And nothing more. In addition, most people have dedicated themselves to talk about you. And if they're talking about you, so what? Be yourself!

Stop worrying about the outcome. Numbers are just numbers. They do not have any mystical powers. Sometimes they overlap in numerical matrices so it doesnt have to mean anything at all. Your only job is to give your best from yourself.

Do not worry about your life and career if it does not go as you have planned it. The more you hold yourself to any plan, sooner you will make a mistake. Since the world is constantly changing every detailed plan usually gets old really fast. So instead plans try to observe things objectively and realistically.

Do not allow others to use you, so they can avoid their own responsibility. You can not be responsible for another person's happiness or success or you can do it for them to achieve. They should find their own path.

Do not worry about your personality because ...... You dont own it. Personality and ego, are an invented concept and often are full of illusions!

QUESTION EVERYTHING, AND DON'T JUST GO THROUGH LIFE, GROW THROUGH LIFE!