utorak, 8. siječnja 2013.

Winners vs. Losers

What does define you? Is it really so simple to be a winner or is it hard? What is the difference between winning&losing? Vince Lombardi once said that "Winning is a habit, unfortunately, so is losing!" What is the point of that?

One of the gratest things that you can realize about yourself and your selfknowledge is that moustly everything about your life, about how good you are, how good is your relationships, your work, your education etc. everythng in your life is about depends on your attitude.
Attitude like many other things is a state of mind and it is also a decisive act of will, to take action, it depends on your will, it is choosen by you and nobody else, attitude can not be imposed and that is a fact! That is why it is so important to always question yourself and your actions, because choosing to be positive when life brings you hard times or any kind of troubles (or you may call it difficulties) and having a grateful attitude can really make you strive for action and make a big difference and it will finaly going to determine how you're going to live your life and how or what your final outcome is going to be, is it going to be failure or succes, is it going to be winning or losing! It moustly depends on little things such as attitude! Which is an obvious difference between Good&bad attitude. Well then, let me tell you a "little thing" and diference in attitudes and what is the difference between winners&losers...

Winners focus on solutions, while losers focus on their problems. Winners take responsibility, while losers always blame others. Winners always find oportunity in crisis, while losers complain abaout the crisis.Winners enjoy the present and learn from the past, the losers live in the past. Winners make promises and fulfill them no matter what, the losers are never fulfilled. Winners are considering how they can achieve their goals and losers always have their excuses. Winners put personal development as a priority, losers neglect personal development. Winners face their own fears, accept them and move forward from them, the losers are lost in fear and moustly they are not even aware of their situation. Winners constantly expand their comfort zone, the losers are holding their own comfort zone. Winners always act, losers do not work and they lack perseverance. Winners accept defeat and learn from it and losers are afraid of defeat and avoid them. Winners are trying a variety of strategies when they do not get the expected results, the losers are doing the same thing over again and expecting better results. Winners set goals, losers do not. Winners plan, the losers hate planning.
Winners believe that there is always something to learn, losers put themselves as experts, even when they know little. Winners are humble, losers are egoists. Winners work hard, losers avoid to work hard, moustly they are lazy. Winners give their best when they do something, losers only give a part of yourself when you are working.
Winners are persistent and will do whatever it takes (in terms of sport&ethics) in order to accomplish their goals, losers quit obstacles as they arise. Winners wisely use their time and devote themselves to activities that will bring them closer to the goal, losers poorly manage their time and enjoy activities that they just take their time. Winners think about the possibilities, losers focus on obstacles that will prevent them from reaching their goal. Winners believe in their dreams, losers suspect. Winners control their destiny, all the losers are left to fate. Winners give more than they take, the losers take more than they can give. Winners think and lead, losers refuse to think and therefore must follow the other. Winners spend their money on personal improvement, losers think that spending money on pointless training's and prefer to buy things that give them instant satisfaction. Winners help others to win, losers refuse help and think only of them self. Winners are people who souround themselfs with like-minded ones and who can give them even more enhance. progress and upturn and losers souround themself with similar people who surround them and sooner or later they lead them to ruin.



Wisdom lies is in "little things", little "choices" is what you need to develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you and finaly knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation. Little choices about attitude are the ones that makes a hell of a difference between good&bad, between winning&losing, and finaly between living&dying,! Attitude affects everything in your life! Attitude is a choice, like winning is! Choose to win and choose to live and be a winner!




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